The Ego..

What is the Ego?

The ego is an identity that we create on our own of our self in which is false. If we can take everything that makes us who we are, from personalities, talents, and abilities then we have the making of the Ego. These talents, abilities, and aspects of our personality will be attributes of our skills, but the mental construct of our-self is artificial. And is an active part of our personalities playing a huge role in creating emotional drama in our lives.

Identifying the Ego

When we have thoughts about our self that we agree with, we construct a self-image on how one perceives his/her own personal identity. Ego-identifying thoughts are but not limited to:

  1. I am insecure
  2. I am dumb, stupid, ugly etc..
  3. I am on my own, no one will ever like me
  4. I am better than you
  5. I am smarter then you will ever be
  6. “I am only cute when I am Prego”- (says my wife) lol

As you can see these are both negative and positive thoughts of our self where the ego can manifest. Pay attention to the “I and Me”  when trying to identify the ego because these are thoughts and statements about our Identity and how we feel about ourselves.

When we have these kinds of thoughts and agree with even the smallest conviction that these thoughts and ideas define us then we are giving the power to the ego. More often times then not we experience these kinds of thoughts as children. It could have been in school and someone teased us and talked down to us because it was something about ourselves others didn’t approve of, or when we were overly praised and have a belief that we’re better than someone else because of it. It doesn’t matter where your from in every culture developing a self-image is a normal part of life-society. problems come when these thoughts about our image become negative, inaccurate or overly positive.

Having feelings of insecurity and arrogance are 2 sides of the same coin when it comes to the ego and how to identify it because it can get really tricky and confusing at times. But by becoming aware of self-limiting beliefs we are better to equip in hushing the ego once and for all. It is possible to have some positive self-esteem and some negative self-esteem – we are aware of these different beliefs at different times. Your positive thoughts form your positive self-esteem and your negative thoughts form your negative self-esteem both together form the ego.When the ego controls the self-reflection process you have no chance of seeing the root cause of your emotional dramas, as the ego reaffirms itself and hides in the self-criticism and self-blame. Keeping a good head on your shoulders and not thinking your better than others or less than others and seeing that we’re all equal will go along way in fighting the ego. Thus helping you view yourself in a better light! Control the ego, and control your life. I promise (;

-King

 

 

 

Author: KingleeVibes

KingLeeVibes is all about things in life that make us human and helps us with the process of realization. That we are spiritual beings having a human experience, not the other way around. Everything that you need to be able to help your self mentally and physically you will find it here. lets inspire and grow together #vibes and blessings <3 Explaining the name: Kings- We are all Kings and Queens of our own inner world. Meaning, we are the head. Our higher selves are just waiting to be released into the world and assist us in becoming the best version of ourselves. we are all creative beings and we have gotten away from that over the many years of social conditioning. now is the time to take back our inheritance from our ancestors and shine it upon the world. The world will know us. Lee: is my middle name and its Celtic meaning is “Healer” in Latin it means lion and in Irish it means poetic. I do feel all 3 of these meanings form the foundation of my inner self. I am loving and emphatic as a healer, full of strength and courage as a loin and have a very poetic mind. its so bad that sometimes i have to actually try not to wright in rhymes lol. Vibes: Meaning vibrations, How We feel and how We choose to feel about life. the energy you give off and show to the world everyday, even you don’t realize it. I am here to help you do just that. There can be good vibes and bad vibes we discus them both on this blog. How to keep them up when you feel that energy vampires are sucking you dry. And how to stay consistent at repelling negative energy’s. We’re here to help each other, so I am very excited to work on this with you all! Also it doesn’t just stop there. This Blog will talk about Healing yourself inside and out using herbs crystals foods etc.., there will be poetry for my poem lovers out there, book reviews for the people that love to read and discus, wisdom and quotes from myself and others also spiritualism and social issues. If there is ever anything you guys would like me to add don’t be afraid to let me know! P.S by no means am i perfect, i am definitely still a work in progress so lets grow and build together have faith in each other to accomplish our goals and miracles can happen I truly believe that. Thanks for reading!!

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