🌞May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears🌞 -Nelson Mandela
In life, we start to see a pattern forming within different areas of our lives and that could be in our marriages, our finances, and even our health.
Inside these patterns there is meaning. Something is there for us to learn and break out of that old cycle into a new one. Some decision or choice needs to be made in order for us to advance in that part of our lives.
These choices can be easy and some very hard. But it will be those hard choices that you will have to make at some point in life that will really test your strenght. It is easy to blame God or the universe for the bad things that are happening to us.
Whats hard is taking responsibility for yourself. We don’t want to feel that we are in our own way. We’d rather place the blame outside of ourselves to make our choices and actions seem justified.
And that’s fine. We all are human. But at some point we have to start taking responsibility for the decisions we made along our journey and learn to forgive ourselves, let go and move on.
It is the only way to truly live a happy life. Once we begin to understand that sometimes mistakes and misjudgments do happen we look at this as a learning experience and our worries start to melt away.
It becomes easier to make a decision. Because the decision you made isn’t always necessarily the wrong one. Everything happens for a reason and nothing happens by coincidence.
So be firm in the decision that you make forgive yourself if the one that you did make didnt take you where you wanted to go. That’s life. It happens. At that point, we need to get back up and keep it moving.
Eventually, we will get it right and then our best lives will be upon us. Life is all about choices. make the best ones for you. and leave fear of failure behind. Only then will you soar and become your greatest self. #Blessings🌞